LGBTQIA Pride

I am a transman, nonbinary, was on testosterone from 2009-2011 at a low dose, but have not been since then, my beard grows naturally, I like it, I like being Steven he/him, I have not had either transman top or transman bottom surgery and don't want either, I am also concerned that I cannot safely have any surgery and don't want it unless it is a true emergency. I have just started over the counter progesterone birth control, I am most certainly not looking for more drastic measures. I really don't see why there should be any issue with t-shirts, jeans or slacks, sweatshirts, and tennis shoes, which is what I wear almost all the time. I am not seeking electrolysis nor can I afford it. I am happy with my body including being fat. 

I am a gay man. I am interested almost exclusively in men. I have been married or had a life partner twice, both to men, each over ten years, monogamously. I am 43. My partner is 57. My ex husband is 56. My partner is Danish but living in the USA in Louisiana, and disabled like me, however, he is a brilliant Physics Professor. My ex husband was a Senior Programmer from Texas.

I don't have a physical type I am attracted to. My type is programmers who are interested in physics and astronomy, typically older than me, also nerds. I have tended to be interested in gamers-- video gamers, board gamers, Live Action RPGers, Table Top RPGers (although I have done this last one very little to none). I don't gamble, and that is not a feature, though it is also not a deal breaker. I like science fiction and fantasy, I think probably all of them have too. I think probably all of them either read at least a little or a lot. Most of them were accomplished and intelligent, and ambitious in one way or another, though social success was usually not the specific goal. Most also had some irresponsible fun side somewhere (like me). Many enjoyed teaching, writing, research, or engineering.